Sherry
Long / The
Daily News
Sixteen months after Henderson Police Department Patrolman Byran
Vail died
in a traffic accident while driving home from work, his family said
they
have no regrets about donating his organs.
"His whole life was to help people and that was something he
always wanted
to do is to donate his organs," Vail1s sister, Cristi Woodward
said.
"He wanted to donate his organs so someone else could live
through him. He
had a heart as big as the world."
Vail died December 18, 2003 at Good Shepherd Medical Center in Longview
after colliding with a tractor trailer rig on Farm-to-Market Road
1845.
Both vehicles were headed westbound on FM 1845, when Vail struck
the trailer
from the rear as the rig was turning into a driveway.
Within 24 hours of his being taken to the hospital, Vail was declared
brain
dead and the organ recovery began.
She said her family incurred no expenses related to the organ donation.
"They (Southwest Transplant Alliance) are basically saying
thank you so much
for saving these people's lives," Woodward said.
Normally it takes more than a year for families to meet, sometimes
not even
then if the donor's family or the recipient family don't know how
to
approach and thank each other.
Due to the heavy media coverage of her brother's death, Vail's family
was
able to meet some of his recipients in about two weeks.
"He is smiling down because all he would be able to see is
how he was able
to help so many other families," Woodward said.
VAIL'S GIFT
Regina Bennett, was able to celebrate her 25th birthday because
of Vail's
gift. She received one of his kidneys. In April 2001 at the age
of 22 she
found out she was in advanced kidney failure.
"They call it the silent killer because normally you don't
know until it's
too late," said Bennett, a Malakoff resident. "Until the
damage is already
done to the kidneys and is not reversible."
She began dialysis in October 2001 using a home machine during the
middle of
the night, so she could still work her full-time job during the
day.
"Every day nine hours a day for two years, one month and one
week," she said
referring to the dialysis.
More than a year later in December 2002, Bennett's name was added
to the
transplant waiting list. On December 20, 2003, she got her new kidney.
"Bryan was a better match for me than my brother and my brother
was tested,"
she said.
"It was the grace of God that I was able to have Bryan's kidney."
Four days later she went home from the hospital and spent that evening
at
church for carols and candlelight.
"My spiritual life in God has deepened in Him," she said
since the surgery.
LIFE'S SECOND CHANCES
Beckville High School teacher and Henderson resident Julie Tanner
was
diagnosed with juvenile diabetes at 18 years old in January 1973.
Taking insulin every day for 22 years, she was diagnosed with end
stage
renal disease in February 1995. She believes her kidneys began failing
because of her diabetes requiring her
to get a pancreas and kidney transplant.
"My kidneys were no longer able to do the two main functions
it does -
remove the excess fluids from your body and also removes the excess
toxins
from your body," she said.
Attending dialysis three days a week in the evenings after work,
the machine
would pump from eight to ten pounds of fluid off her system in a
four-hour
time period. After going on the transplant list in January 1996,
she finally
got her transplant on March 19, 2002.
"I came out thanking God," she said after the six-hour
surgery. "Then I
realized I had to do a double take and a double check - is this
really
happening or is it just a dream."
Tanner said she hopes to eventually meet her donor's family. She
has
exchanged letters with them. Her donor, a 16-year-old boy from Oklahoma
killed in a four-wheeler accident, often touches her heart she said
because
she teaches 16-year-old students everyday.
"It's a miracle that these organs can be packed up, put on
ice, put on the
plane and shipped," she said.
By going through this experience, she said she is no longer afraid
to die
like she was in the beginning.
"I know now that I am going to live," Tanner said. "I
used to be worried I
would never live to see my son graduate from college, which I did.
I was
afraid I wouldn't live to see him get married, but I did."
Totally grateful for her second chance at life, Tanner said she
encourages
everyone to become an organ donor.
"If you were to be an organ donor you could continue living
in another form
here on this earth," she said. "I really think the family
could be
comforted knowing that, the loss of a
loved one is not a total loss."
Her husband went back to school to get his nursing degree after
her
transplant - something she said he always wanted to do to help others.
DONATING ORGANS
Vail was one of 600 Texans who annually donate their organs, so
another
person might live, said Pam Silvestri, Southwest Transplant Alliance
spokesperson.
Each day across the nation 17 people die, while waiting for a transplant.
One donor can save up to 50 people.
A donor's heart, both lungs, both kidneys, liver, pancreas and intestines
can save eight different people's lives.
More lives can be saved through tissue donation - the corneas, the
skin,
donating bones and other tissues.
A computer matches the donor with the most compatible recipients
based on
each person's blood type, body size and how sick the recipient is.
Becoming an organ donor is easy, Silvestri said, all it takes is
telling
your friends and family you want to be an organ donor.
According to STA data, when families choose not to donate, many
of them say
it's because they do not know if their loved one would have wanted
to donate
their organs.
Silvestri said recovering the organs is just like having any other
surgery.
Once the organs are removed the body is sewed back up and when the
body is
clothed no one would be able to tell a person is an organ donor
unless the
family tells them, she said.
Donors' families often express how good they feel that their choice
helped
saved someone else's loved one, even years after making the decision
to
donate their loved one's organs, Silvestri said.
Recipients tend to take very good care of themselves following a
transplant
because they know they have a second chance.
"Usually if they take care of themselves and take care of the
organ they can
live a natural lifespan," said Silvestri.
Of the 87,000 people waiting for a transplant annually almost 6,000
are
children under 17 years old.
"If someone is born and they take a breath and then they can
potential be a
donor," Silvestri said.
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